"The
most holy sacrament in traditional Wicca is the Great Rite, a representation of
the Hieros Gamos or Sacred Marriage of male and female. Done symbolically, a
dagger representing the phallic male God and a chalice representing the Goddess
are joined, the dagger dipped into the chalice in overt sexual symbolism. Wicca
in its origins is based upon a thoroughly heterosexual theology."
Wicca has its ORIGINS in a "heterocentric" theology.
It's ideal for heterosexuals who are longing to find a spirituality deeply
linked to their sexuality, because traditional Wicca honors the Goddess as the
Divine Feminine, and honors the Horned God as the Divine Masculine, and sees in
their loving erotic union the sacred key to all the cosmic mysteries of Nature
and spiritual evolution.
If that's not your own personal cup of tea - great! You have
hundreds of other neopagan religions to choose from, including quite a few
forms of neopagan witchcraft.
Just stop with the blatant double standard whereby it's okay for
gay people to have gay covens with a homosexual theology, but it's not okay for
straight people to have straight covens with a heterosexual theology. That is
where the real bias dwells these days: legions of politically correct left-wing
eclectics bashing people who are deeply heterosexual and accusing them of
"homophobia" just because they want and need a religion that reflects
their own sacred sexuality.
I
have always welcomed gay men and women into pagan open circles; and likewise I
have always respected their right to form their own groups focused specifically
on gay spirituality, if that's what they want to do. But some of them seem
highly unwilling to reciprocate my tolerance. That hardly seems equitable and
just.
We need to get over this idea that each and every pagan religion
should strive to be equally appealing to every single person in the world. The
reason why religious diversity is such a good thing is because people are very
different, and are looking for very different things in a religion.
Traditional Wicca, based on the core idea of the erotic
attraction and romantic love between the Divine Masculine and the Divine
Feminine, is a religion perfectly suited for heterosexual men and women looking
for a way to relate their sexuality to their spirituality. It may not be of
much interest to gay men and lesbians; just as gay witchcraft ideas are not of
much interest to straight folks.
But that's okay; no one religion can be everything to everyone;
and if it tries to be, then it will be in danger of losing its original and
distinctive flavor that made it so appealing to some folks in the first place.
(Just like a Celtic trad could not start incorporating Egyptian and Asian and
Native American deities without losing its distinctive character and the
adherence of the people who were looking for a specifically Celtic path.)
For me personally, a religion that honors masculinity and
femininity as sacred gender opposites was and still is an absolutely perfect
fit. Before I found Wicca, I was drawn to Taoism for the same reason: the
emphasis that religion put on the polar opposites of yin and yang, feminine and
masculine.
I encountered and appreciated the same idea in tantric yoga and in
alchemy; but not until I came home to Wicca did the ideal of spiritual gender
polarity reach its full flowering, with the Hieros Gamos or sacred marriage of
the Goddess and the Horned God. That is the 'Conjunctio Oppositorum' as Jung
and Eliade referred to it: the Union of Opposites or the 'Alchemical Wedding'
that brings transcendent mystical oneness.
If Wicca in
the future were to go all pansexual and gender-bending - and thus lose the
essential heterosexual theology and practice that made it so appealing to me
and many other straight people in the first place - then what? Then we might
find it necessary to create another new pagan religion just like Wicca all over
again, with a clearly defined heterosexual theology and ritual practice. But
why should we have to do that?? Gerald Gardner already created such a religion,
and that religion is Wicca.
So just leave traditional Wicca alone, if it's
not a good fit for you; and go join or start another pagan religion that is a better
fit for your own inclinations. I fail to see why that is not the most sane and
reasonable solution to the supposed "problem" of the innate
"heterocentrism" within traditional Wiccan theology and ritual
practice. So, moving right along: which pagan group is
the next to be picked on, for their perceived lack of Political Correctness?
But the
point remains that Wicca originated as a pagan religion that honors and
celebrates the sacrality of heterosexual erotic spirituality; and that's why
traditional Wiccan theology is firmly heterosexual -- or
"heterocentric" -- and our God and Goddess are conceived of as
straight divine lovers, and the dagger in the chalice, and all the rest of it.
Wicca is originally and traditionally a decidedly heterosexual religion.
Wicca certainly did not "emerge in the 60's/70's, and it
certainly did NOT "go hand in hand with homosexuality." Wicca "emerged" in the 40's/50's, with Gerald Gardner
and Doreen Valiente. Wicca is a religion based on a core theology of gender
polarity: the worship of a Great Goddess and a Great Horned God who are
HETEROSEXUAL divine Lovers.
In traditional Wicca -- which means Gardnerian Wicca and a few
other branches -- the idea of male/female gender polarity permeates EVERYTHING.
Covens are led by both a priestess and a priest, who fill different roles.
Covens want equal numbers of men and women, with "working partners"
always being a male-female pair. Initiations are always from male-to-female or
female-to-male; one is never initiated by someone of the same sex.
The
most holy sacrament in traditional Wicca is the Great Rite, a representation of
the Hieros Gamos or Sacred Marriage of male and female. Done symbolically, a
dagger representing the phallic male God and a chalice representing the Goddess
are joined, the dagger dipped into the chalice in overt sexual symbolism. Wicca
in its origins is based upon a thoroughly heterosexual theology.
The
reason for all the heterosexual symbolism, as Doreen Valiente once explained it
was "Wicca is a Nature religion, and there's a lot of sex in Nature."
It was also common in alchemy and ceremonial magic - both traditions that Wicca
borrowed from - to emphasize male/female union as an important tantric magical
practice; gender polarity being a kind of electrical "battery" to
generate magical energies.
For that reason and others, Gerald Gardner and many
other early traditional Wiccans did not believe that it was a religion for
homosexuals. Because the core beliefs and practices all revolved around the
sacrality of heterosexual eros, it was hard at that time to imagine where where
gay men and lesbians could fit in.
However, as eclectic Wicca started pulling away from traditional
Wicca - and that was in the 60's/70's - the core religious theology of Wicca
was changed or 'adapted' by various individuals and groups who were drawn to
witchcraft for the beauty and mystery and magic, but who did not relate to the
core heterosexual theology. That included both gay men and radical lesbian
feminists, who started to promulgate a very different and non-traditional form
of eclectic witchcraft.
The feminists tended to exclude the Horned God almost
entirely - which is kind of like claiming that you're a Christian but you only
honor Jehovah and not Jesus. Gay men went in various other directions with the
theology, including the idea that the Goddess and the Horned God were not
lovers, but rather just Mother and Son. (Even in traditional Wicca, the Goddess
is seen as the mother of the God; especially at Yule. But their main
relationship is that of Lovers.)
With these historical changes, even some of the more traditional
covens found themselves feeling pressured to admit gay men and lesbians to
their ranks. And many or most of traditional covens did welcome homosexual
members within a very short period of time. But it was not always an easy fit,
given the very heterosexual nature of traditional Wiccan theology and practice.
The standard rule in most traditional covens is that they would accept gay
members, but they had to adjust their "polarity" while in circle, to
fit with the male/female workings, and not have same-sex partners in circle.
Above all, traditional Wicca forbade any changes to the heterosexual theology:
that is, "Don't try to 'gay' our Gods."
Some gay men and lesbians still felt they found a home in
traditional Wicca. Sometimes they related to the Goddess and God as divine
"parents" who were heterosexual. Other gay men and women, however,
wanted a religion that reflected their own erotic inclinations. That's
perfectly understandable, since for many pagans the connection between
sexuality and spirituality runs deep and intense.
So there was Herman Slater
and Ed B., and the start of 'Minoan Witchcraft' - where they saw the Goddess as
a lesbian mother and the Horned God as her gay son, and they started mostly gay
covens with men in one coven and women in another. That's definitely NOT Wicca,
clearly; but it's a valid form of neopagan religious witchcraft in its own
right.
Meanwhile, many heterosexuals continued to find their own
spiritual and sexual fulfillment in the traditional religion of Wicca as it
first started out. And that is also perfectly fine, of course. We are each
after a spiritual path that fits us, and often that means one that reflects our
own sexual orientation. So it's fine that there are gay covens, and it's fine
that there are straight covens, and it's fine that there are covens that don't
care what your sexual orientation is.
There is room for everyone in the
neopagan community, of course. But one
thing that IS disrespectful is to "steal" an existing religion and
twist it around to where it is unrecognizable. And that's something that pagans
seem slow to admit, when it comes to the eclectic hijacking of traditional
Wicca.
When it's a Hopi elder complaining that these blonde New Age
yuppies are stealing their religion and claiming to be practicing "Hopi
religion" when it's really some eclectic mix of crystal-gazing and other
new age practices - then everyone sympathizes and stands up for the Hopi's
right to define their religion in the traditional ways.
But when it's a traditional Wiccan standing
up for the traditional theology of Wicca as it was originally founded by Gerald
Gardner in the 1940's -- which was heterosexual to an extreme degree -- then
everyone is so quick to toss around the charge of "homophobia" and
start complaining that they're "victimizing" people. Even if they
have a long history of supporting gay rights, have gay and lesbian friends,
circle happily with gay and lesbian pagans, and etc.
No,
it's not about "homophobia." It's about wanting to practice a
religion that reflects our own deepest spiritual feelings and sexual identity.
And that should be okay for heterosexuals as well as for homosexuals and
bisexuals. What's crazy is thinking that gay covens are perfectly okay, but
straight covens are some kind of "persecution." If it's okay to have
gay covens, then it's also okay to have straight covens. To each their own.
By
analogy, some pagan groups are drawn to Celtic pantheons, and others may be
drawn to Norse or Egyptian or Greco-Roman pantheons. If you're drawn to an
Egyptian pantheon, then it would be absurd to want to join a Norse group, and
then complain that you're being 'excluded' or 'persecuted' because of your
Egyptian leanings. Likewise, if a coven practices traditional Wicca in a way
that is focused on worshiping a heterosexual God and Goddess couple, and
honoring heterosexual eros and male/female gender polarity, then it's absurd to
want to join that group and expect it to accommodate your desire for a gay
religion.
There is room for everyone in the pagan movement. Just respect where
other people are coming from, and let them do their own thing.